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Are you working on building skills which cannot be automated?
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Hi I'm 23M. Anyone here from iloilo dito? Wanna find a girl to hang out with this weekend. The "stay indoors and watch movies/play games" kind of hangout. If things go well maybe we can become fbw or fubus? I'm tisoy, clean, and good in bed but super introverted that's why I'm here.
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I'm S. Korean in BGC. Looking for someone to chat with. Kind of bored and would like to meet someone new as a friend first then see where it goes. Leave your TG and a bit about yourself then I will message you if you sound like someone I can bond with.
Hello! How are you? How's your 2020 so far? I hope you're doing fine.
Anyway, I know this is too sudden, so shameless and mean of me, but I have an extra large favor to ask of you. You can totally refuse me if you want, no pressure at all, I would totally understand. It's just that I need a large sum of money, and before anything else, I promise to pay it back, you can trust me on this. I know I'm asking for too much, it's just that I'm panicking. What am I panicking for you might be curious. Well, last week I realized something horrific. I'm about to graduate next year November 2021! (my heart is racing just saying this). I thought I still had YEARS before I graduate, but no, I only have this year and next. Jeez I sound pathetic, huh?
Anyway, I've been thinking about this since last year. You probably don't know this about me but I love everything about the Japanese, it's culture and it's language. I can already speak some words and I know how to pronounce, but I'm really just like a baby who's just starting to speak lol.
Anyway here goes. I want to borrow money from you so I can fund my Japanese language learning. I know this sound so absurd but there's a lot of money to be earned just by being fluent in this language. You know, in Manila there's a lot BPO companies hiring people who know Japanese with a salary starting from 50k to 150k. In Cebu, there's a hiring with 100k to 150k monthly salary. And even without those, there a ton of work opportunities in Japan when a person knows the Japanese language.
There's another reason for my panicking. In the Japanese language, there's a proficiency test called JLPT, wherein there are 5 levels. Starting from N5 for beginners to N1 for advanced business level fluency. By next year I have to be atleast at JLPT level N3 to be able to have balls to apply to these BPO companies.
So I am planning of using the money I borrow from you to learn level N5 and N4 now. From there on I can proceed smoothly to the upper levels. I know there are videos on YouTube for Japanese learning but it's just that I learn better in a classroom and it will be faster and more efficient to learn this way because there's a structure.
Okay, so here's the amount and my terms: 30,000 pesos to be paid for 24 months, so that's 1,250 per month plus interest of 100 pesos. So I pay you 1350 every month. I'm on a student budget that's why I'm asking for two years to pay the debt. If you don't like the interest rate, please tell me. I'm willing to submit anything you ask of me. Pictures of all of my ID and documents.
The Japanese language learning centers I've inquired near me asked for 25k to 28k pesos for their 300 hours japanese lessons. The extra money I'll get will be used for buying textbooks etc.
You might be curious as to where my parents are with this, they totally support me. We just don't have the money to pay the large amount upfront.
The JLPT exams will happen late this year and I'm hoping I could take and pass JLPT N4 by then.
Although this is truly unbecoming of me, I really need you to believe and trust me on this.
But of course, I'd totally understand if you refuse. You don't have any reason to trust me, I'm just hoping hehe.
Anyway, your eyes are probably hurting now, my angel. I'll stop here.
Again, thank you so much for everything. Thank you even for just reading this.
Hoping to hear your reply soon. Either positive or negative, I will still be forever grateful to you.
Looking to move to Philippines, any advice please on where to base and how? Would love to hear your feedback. Also how to get permanent residency. Thanks
Anyone here who works from home? How do you manage to stay focused on your tasks and do you manage?
I am having a difficult time concentrating
My current Jowa is too busy and has no time or me. It has been 2 months since we did it. I have needs!!!!
I met someone online last February without any hopes of developing any romantic feelings. We both didn't have any profile photos in our dating accounts, yet we caught ourselves getting somewhat attracted or falling for each other everytime we talk for hours... or so I thought. I eventually shared some of my photos as a way of showing him that I was sincere with my friendship... he did the same after my constant prodding.
Days turned into weeks, and weeks turned into months of talking/chatting. We've shared a lot of our views and dreams in life that we're kinda like bf/gf already (without the title of course). He's torpe and I'm pretty old-fashioned/conservative in a lot of ways though he's more of the teasing type of guy. The last conversation we had was back in July 7. I asked him if it's okay for us to video chat or if he could send me a video instead even with a face mask on. He quipped, "You've already seen my photos, those should be enough." I responded with a few questions: "Don't you wanna meet me? Do you have plans of meeting me soon?" He answered, "We don't know when this pandemic will be over. We might meet in the future, who knows?". I was disappointed and sad to be honest, but I truly understand where he's coming from... that he's just being careful and he's doing his part not to be part of the numbers. (Btw, he's from Manila and I'm from the south area). I kept mum for a while because I was ruminating on a lot of things. I just could not understand why it's so hard for him to meet me if I was willing to visit him personally. I just wanted to be cordial and genuine too. He sent me a good night sticker then. I wasn't able to respond that night since it's already late and my hands were full with a lot of errands and work, so I replied a few days later. He didn't reply to my messages and chats. He never answered my calls, but I've seen him online on the dating platform where we met. Lest I forget, he suggested before that it's best if I'd just delete my account since I was getting nasty messages from men. I took it as his way of showing concern, so I also took the liberty of telling him that he should also do the same thing. He said, he'd delete it once he's already in a formal, committed relationship.
I was kinda hurt because that's not what I was expecting to hear from him. He said he's not talking to other women other than me because he felt it's wrong to talk to different girls all at the same time...and he knew from the start that I had the same stance when it comes to potential suitors/matches. I don't like the idea of talking to different guys. That's not my thing since time immemorial. It's hard to be flatly ignored by someone when there are other guys that I can just entertain, who are so much better than him...but then again, I don't really care much about looks. All I want is a God-fearing man with a good head on his shoulder, plus good morals. Is that too much to ask for? I have a few questions that I need some enlightenment please to wit:
1. What could be the reason/s why he ghosted me?
2. Should I text/call him again? I don't chase people, let alone men out of dignity and self-worth, but I'm willing to go that route to make things clear once and for all.
3. Should I give up or should I just keep chasing pavements?
Thank you kindly for your advice.